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Stag do planning: who does what, who pays, when to start
Who organises it, who covers the groom, how to run the money pot and when to book everything: the stag do planning playbook, with roles and timeline.
Who organises the stag do?
The natural lead is the best man, backed by 2-3 close friends. The key: one person centralises decisions, the pot and the bookings. Many hands without a leader just go in circles. The best man polls the group, settles trade-offs and holds the budget — delegating specific missions (photos, playlist, surprises).
Who pays for what?
The custom: everyone pays their own share, and the group splits the groom's (his part is covered). The best man collects everything via an online pot before paying suppliers. Announce a budget range from the start — the best way to avoid tension and last-minute drop-outs.
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The ideal timeline
At T-120 days: group created, availability polled, budget announced. T-90: flights, stay and the headline activity booked, first pot instalment. T-30: restaurants, second activity, fancy dress and surprises. T-7: final plan sent, every booking confirmed. Our checklist walks through each step.
Share the missions
A good stag do is delegated work: a treasurer (pot and accounts), an official photographer, a playlist/vibe lead and someone on surprises and dares. The best man coordinates but doesn't do it all. Sharing roles avoids burnout and involves the group. For the full framework, see how to plan a stag do.
Frequently asked questions
Who organises the stag do?
The best man, helped by 2-3 close friends. The essential thing is that one person centralises decisions, the pot and the bookings, delegating specific missions to the rest.
Who pays for the groom on a stag do?
The group splits his share (it's covered); everyone else pays their own, via an online pot run by the best man, who announces a budget range from the start.
How far ahead should you plan a stag do?
3 to 4 months: at T-120 launch the group and budget, T-90 book flights, stay and the headline activity, T-30 finalise, T-7 send the plan. Earlier in high season.
How do you share the planning roles?
A treasurer (pot), a photographer, a vibe/playlist lead and someone on surprises. The best man coordinates without doing it all — it avoids burnout and involves the group.
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